Being a father
Parenthood

19 March 2025

Being a father

Being a father


Nowadays, we believe that the role of the father is just as important as the role of the mother.


We can consider that there is a shared responsibility here with the mother. On the other hand, the father will also have his doubts about several aspects - his authority as a father, the relationship he will have with the baby and the attitude he plans to adopt.


But one thing we think is important is that fathers should ensure that they experience fatherhood in the best possible way.


The role of the father has undergone changes. Previously, the father was seen as a figure of unquestionable authority and the mother had the role of providing emotional presence and daily care. However, people's mentalities have been changing and this so-called "traditional" model is no longer acceptable. These changes are due to the influence generated by people's personal and professional choices. One of the most outstanding examples of this transformation is the fact that women are taking their professional lives more seriously. It's natural and it's right to happen.


Focusing on the role of fathers, today they are seen as much more affectionate and seem to be more willing to show their feelings. They don't neglect their authoritative side, which turns out to be very important for the children. In addition, they are fundamental, as they are seen as an alternative to the intense relationship that the mother has with the baby and in this way generate a good family environment.












Something we found interesting when researching this topic is the fact that the role of the father increases the connection between family and society for the child. In this sense, we can say that fathers are able to encourage children to take risks in the world around them and give their children this confidence. Mums have a harder time. For the father, it's important that the child explores and he doesn't hesitate to break one or two rules when playing with him. The father is suited to this relationship between self-affirmation in the family and integration into society.


We are well on the way to the necessary changes in this balance between the role of mum and dad, but there are still aspects that could be improved. It is still common for mums to spend more time with their children than dads and to continue to have specific tasks and activities.


We should therefore try to find ways of sharing roles, tasks and responsibilities. It's important as a couple to have daily routines, as well as a structured life for the child, which makes them feel calm and happy.


This balance of roles is healthy, because both mum and dad have the ability to fulfil their roles, but can help each other with their responsibilities. Everyone will be happy - mum, dad and baby.


What about you? Fathers out there, how has your experience been? What do you think about the changing role of fathers today? What's your experience? We want to know your opinion







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